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The topic, as Faludi freely admits, isn't a new one. The past few months
alone have witnessed a volcanic eruption of books on men and manhood, boys
and boyishness. Writers like Lionel Tiger, Michael Segall, and Paul Kivel
have reached the overwhelming consensus that something's really wrong and
soul-killing in the way American males are set and stewarded on life's
path. Because modernity and its incursions upon the human spirit have
already been thoroughly picked apart in the sub-mainstream press, it's
getting hard to find new and interesting angles on the subject. And however
odd it might seem that Faludi's studying men instead of women, Carol
Gilligan does the same in her chair at Harvard's Gender Studies department.
In fact, the intercampus grapevine has long hinted that male liberation
promises to be the next vanguard topic for gender theorists.Despite this wave of interest, out there in the land of Newsweek,
common wisdom, and the battle cry of "who-has-time-to-read?" the field of
"gender issues" still reduces neatly to women's issues, which further
reduces to a pastiche of political advocacy and casual "girls rule"
chauvinism. As noted elsewhere in these pages, the men's movement, such as
it is, is still fraught with the image of Robert Bly and his naked-chested
drum-beaters, and populated chiefly by cranks with a grudge -- the "angry
white males." In the mainstream, men's inner lives aren't sexy or esoteric,
like the nuanced female soul depicted in Natalie Angier's Woman: An
Intimate Geography. Rather, the "male ego" is more like an inner dick,
swelling and deflating for oofy, puppydog reasons: a hometeam touchdown, a
sultry glance from across the dancefloor; twisting open that ketchup
bottle, changing her tire. Into this milieu comes Faludi, swinging two-fisted, with a blockbuster book
on the subject (Stiffed: The Betrayal of the American Man) primed
for release. The American male, Faludi points out, has feelings and
problems, and suffers societal oppression just like women do. Modern life,
the modern economy, and consumer culture are wreaking havoc on the male
psyche, she says, to the point where men are in a state of blinkeredness
and servitude not unlike the one to which women were confined in the 1950s.
Further, the double-edged sword of responsibility and privilege that used
to constitute American masculinity has largely been dissolved, leaving men
with nothing useful and vital to do, and with nothing but an abiding sense
of individual failure to fill the void. Most of which is common sense to any writer who's worked on the subject.
Indeed, Faludi, men's movement grumpus Warren Farrell, and the
right-establishment communitarian Francis Fukuyama could probably mix up
each other's dinner speeches one of these evenings, and nobody would even
notice until the "patriarchal market society" bit right at the end. But to
have Newsweek launch Faludi with one mighty, reverberating twang to
the forefront of the whole movement? It means two things. For one, the time
is overripe for men and boys to be granted the other half of their
humanity, which they've been denied all along: the complex, mysterious,
human interiority that women and girls once owned exclusively (and retained
after feminism earned them a share of male power and perquisite). Second:
D'oh! Whatta fumble for average-American manhood! Lettin' a
carpetbagger come around like that and open the ketchup bottle!
Eee-yoop! goes the shriveling Manhood. Stiffed, indeed.
Gavin McNett has no inner dick.
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Britain will soon reverse the law which forces pubs to close after 11 PM
-- a First World War era code which was meant to increase worker
productivity. Celebrate by checking out the Social Issues Research Center's
Guide to
British Pub Etiquitte. "There is no waiter service in British pubs. You
have to go up to the bar to buy your drinks, and carry them back to your
table. One of the saddest sights of the British summer (or the funniest,
depending on your sense of humour) is the group of thirsty tourists sitting
at a table in a pub, patiently waiting for someone to come and take their
order."
Check out Film Unlimited at The Guardian for interviews with
filmmakers like Jasmin Disdar and quick, amusing profiles of actors like
Edie Falco, who is now celebrated for her role on "The Sopranos" but will
always be remembered for her snappy turns in early Hal Hartley movies.
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